A few weeks ago I shared the
not-so-shocking revelation that the Unguy enjoys watching sports. Now
I must make another confession: I actually enjoy watching women's
sports. In fact, I often prefer women's sports to men's. I am an avid
fan of women's soccer and faithfully follow the US Women's National
Team. I also really enjoy women's professional tennis, much more so
than men's tennis, which I hardly watch at all.
When I talk with others about my
interest in women's sports, I generally receive one (or both) of two
responses. Many people cannot imagine that women's sports can be very
interesting or that women could play well. Therefore they are either
unaware of the existence of women's sports or they have no interest
in them. Alternatively, some people find it very strange for a man to
have interest in an activity pursued by women. Let me consider both
of these responses more closely.
The first response demonstrates an
inherent and unacceptable bias regarding women's athletic ability. It
assumes that women are physically less talented, strong or proficient
than men and therefore in any sport in which both men and women
compete, the women's branch must naturally be less interesting to
watch. This bias affects the whole world of women's sports. Because
of it, fewer people watch women's sports events. Because few people
watch, it is harder to attract sponsors and advertisers, so fewer
women's events are broadcast, thereby keeping awareness of women's
sports low. Because awareness remains low, people do not see what
women are capable of, so they retain their bias. It's a self-propagating cycle. In addition, many
young women may remain unaware of the potential they have as female
athletes. As Missrepresentation.org seeks to demonstrate in multiple
areas, young women cannot be what they cannot see. If they do not see
professional women athletes, they may be less inclined to pursue
athletics themselves. Thankfully many young women overcome this, at
least at the entry and junior levels of sports, but lacking viable
professional venues for their activities, only the most devoted will
continue to engage in athletics as they get older.
As an example, consider that there is
currently no active women's professional football (soccer) league in the
United States, although we have the world's number one ranked women's
football team. If you haven't seen them play, you really should.
Although this team ranks number one, many of their matches still
receive no television coverage. Often they are not available even as
free streaming broadcasts on the internet. By comparison, men's
football, even in the US, gets regular broadcast time on cable and
broadcast television and on the internet, most often for a fee. A petition at Change.org was launched to redress this imbalance, but it
remains to be seen whether it will have any effect. As another
example, tournaments of the WTA (Women's Tennis Association, the body
governing women's professional tennis) are often not broadcast except
on a pay-per-view website, while men's events are more often featured
on cable and broadcast sports channels. The Grand Slam tournaments
(Australian Open, French Open, Wimbledon and the US Open) are
exceptions to this, but they are the premier events and are combined
men's and women's tournaments.
The second response
frustrates me because it demonstrates a lingering gender bias in
society. Why should it be strange for a man to enjoy women's
athletics, when few if any people find it strange for women to
support men's athletics? Why should it be considered abnormal or
weird for me to wear a jersey with the name and number of Alex Morgan
or Hope Solo (two of the top players on the US Women's NationalSoccer team), while a woman could wear a jersey with Tim Tebow's name
and number without anyone thinking twice about it? I find that many
people assume that nothing related to women could (or should!) be
appealing to men. But I disagree. There is nothing wrong or
inappropriate about men being interested in many – even most –
things that are traditionally of interest to women. I think the bias
against women having interest in traditionally “male” activities
has significantly declined, but the bias in the other direction
remains quite strong.
I think that men and
women should feel free to pursue their interests without regard to
traditional gender divisions. Although I am a supporter of
mixed-gender teams, I am not arguing that we should eliminate the
distinction between men's and women's sports. I am arguing that men
should not be made to feel that they are abnormal for supporting
women's sports, or other hobbies and interests traditionally
considered feminine. I consider this to be part of being an unguy and
I will continue my own campaign by actively watching and supporting
women's athletics.
Do you consider it unusual or abnormal for men to have interest in women's activities?
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