As our home group gathered one evening
recently, another member of the group asked me how my week had gone.
I mentioned that I had attended a Bible study at another church in
town. When I told him which church, his reply caught me completely
off guard. He questioned whether there were any believers in the
denomination of which the church in question is part. That alone
troubled me, but then he added the question, “Don't they allow
women to preach?”
This second question offended me,
because I do not believe in the restriction of women from leadership
within the church and para-church ministries. I certainly do not
believe that the inclusion of women in church leadership, including
preaching, excludes a church or a believer from the community of
God's people. In fact I consider the exclusion of women from these
roles to be one of the greatest sins of the Church, akin to the
segregation that some churches (far too many, unfortunately) used to
practice concerning different ethnic groups or races. The struggle
for the inclusion of women in church leadership is a key issue for me
as a feminist, particularly as a Christian feminist.
I understand that this question can
provoke some highly contentious debate and I do not intend to
undertake a full defense of my position in this blog. I know that
there are verses in the Bible that seem to restrict women's roles
within the church as well as to prescribe (and proscribe) their
behavior in the worship community. I have read many articles on this
question and am convinced that one can exegete these passages in a
sound manner that does not result in the exclusion of women from
leadership. In fact, some of the vitriol I have heard and read by
certain esteemed Christian leaders concerning women offends me and
displays not only a false understanding of Scripture but a highly
sinful pride and attitude of male superiority. I will not name these
people, but their attitude toward women causes me to receive anything
they have to say with a very critical spirit.
I believe that God gifts all of his
children. Those gifts different for each individual, but are not
segregated according to our sex. There are not certain gifts that are
appropriate for and given to women and others that are not. I believe
that we hinder the in-breaking of God's kingdom, we hinder the spread
of the Gospel message and the transformation of lives when we refuse
women the right and opportunity to exercise their callings. We lose
the talents and abilities of half of God's people. I no longer
consider this acceptable. It is time for us to affirm the full
equality of women within the community of God's people.
Some, many in fact, argue that men and
women complement each other by their differences. I do not argue that
women and men are exactly the same. In fact I'm beginning to question
the whole social construct of gender, but whether men and women are
different is not the issue. These “complementarians” claim that
the Bible teaches that women are equal, but that God has given them
different roles from men, roles that complement men in their roles as
leaders, husbands, fathers, etc.. This sounds a lot like the old
doctrine of “separate but equal.” Most of us have long ago
recognized that separate is not equal. We can affirm the value and
equality of women all we want, but if we are unwilling to accept them
as equals in every area, then we effectively deny their equality.
This is not acceptable.
Churches that do not want to reconsider
their position on this issue may well continue along in their status
quo. I think there will always be some people willing to accept this
segregation of the sexes. Unfortunately despite progress within our
culture on this issue, the Church in general, especially those
portions of it that label themselves “evangelical” lag quite a
distance behind in this area. But I think that such churches will
find that they increasingly alienate the younger generation. If I
were a woman, I would not be eager to attend a church where I was
told I could not fill certain positions simply because I had two X
chromosomes. Those who understand and affirm the equality of God's
children, male and female, will increasingly abandon those churches
that do not. Some may find a home in other Christian worship
communities. I fear though that some may reject the faith altogether
because of this lack of love on the part of their brothers (and, yes,
some of their sisters as well). That would be a tragic loss, all the
more unfortunate because it is entirely avoidable.
I totally agree. One of my favorite authors that speaks to this issue is Carolyn Custis James. She has authored several books on this topic; The Gospel of Ruth and Half the Church. I have taught several classes from the Gospel of Ruth in China, which was well received. Sadly there are some churches in the US that will not allow Carolyn to teach in them. The men in those churches want to be sure that women remain as helpmates to them not strong warriors as is their rightful position. Carolyn's books are a must read.
ReplyDeleteThere is a lot of good stuff out there written or spoken by our sisters. Unfortunately many of our brothers refuse to receive it simply because it comes from women. As I mentioned in the post, I think it is a sad statement that one of the places women are least respected in our culture is within our churches. We ignore them to our loss.
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